The Health Separation Excuse

I have noticed that over the course of time, as medical science has progressed, people have developed this habit of separating the concept of their health into separate areas. This all started with separating mental, physical, and spiritual health (but it sure didn’t stop there).  As if all three of these types are somehow completely separated. Doing this has allowed people to compartmentalize their ailments, and in doing so divert their self diagnosed cause for such ailments into something they themselves cannot be blamed for, or control. This is a source of comfort for many people, as the only thing harder than learning that they have disease, is having to admit to themselves that they may have caused it.

The medical community for the most part caters to this mentality (even though they know it is totally false), because as long as people are not accepting responsibility and living a healthier life, they stand to turn a higher profit by pumping people full of drugs and having them invest in future invasive (and expensive) surgeries. Lets face it, how many physicians say “You need to lose 30 lbs and exercise 30min every day.” anymore? How many would rather just pump us full of cholesterol medication instead. The main focus of the medical business is the same as the main focus of any other business ……. to make money.

 

The truth is:

Unless we have a PHD to practice medicine, we are not qualified to even separate our mental, physical, and spiritual health into those three categories. Even those that do practice medicine professionally don’t know everything. The medical community (the honest medical community) itself, will be the first to admit that there is still more about the human body (and especially the mind) that they don’t know, than they do know.

 

Here is a short list of some of the excuses I have heard before that reflect this separation people make:

  • “My cancer has nothing to do with my diet.”
  • “I have diabetes, there is nothing I can do, or could have done about it.”
  • “Exercise will do nothing for me, its genetic.”

 

The answer of “genetics” is my favorite. It’s the biggest cop out of all of them. While some people are genetically more prone to some ailments than others, this does not alleviate them from their responsibility to themselves to do what they can to prevent/fight it. Because believe it or not, there have been many times when people have fought through and defeated diseases naturally, that were previously believed to be genetic. But somehow so many people seem far more comfortable with accepting sickness and death, than accepting responsibility.

In the end, the only thing we really know for sure regarding health is this: To be healthy in every way, one must lead a mentally and physically active lifestyle with a natural and proper diet. Eat healthy food, exercise, engage in cooperative problem solving projects, and drink lots and lots of water. That’s it. That’s the way it’s always been. That’s the way it will always be. The best cure, remedy, and preventative we have for every ailment in existence is just to follow this simple set of rules. We have no reason to believe otherwise. All we have is theories and excuses.

We, as a society, have to see our health as one idea. There is no separation of heart, liver, lungs, pancreas, brain, nervous system, circulatory system, respiratory system, and digestive system. These are all part of the same system. If anything happens to one of them (good or bad), it effects ALL OF THEM. The same goes for mental, physical, and spiritual health. These are all one in the same. A separation only needs to be made in the practice of medicine.

If we change our mentality to think of health as one all encompassing concept (like we once did), then we are forced to realize that we have to live a healthy all around lifestyle to prevent/fight any potential ailment. I.E. we must narrow (or minimize) our views of our health, because every part of our health is too closely linked to warrant separation for the purposes of best lifestyle practices.

The more we focus on our health as a whole, the less likely we will be in a circumstance where our doctors have to focus on any specific area of our health for a cure/remedy when we are the 11th hour of a disease.

Time and money

timemoneyI recall once reading an essay from a minimalist where the meat of it read something like “Before making that $50 purchase at the store, ask yourself, ‘Is this worth $50 of my freedom?'” Woe Wooooe FREEDOM? really? We are equating money to freedom? Money is important no doubt. It is the means by which we acquire the things we need to survive. So yeah, it’s damn important. But money is not freedom. There is something we have that does equate to freedom however (wait for it). Freedom is not something you earn, it is an inalienable right, and gift from God. We all have it. It can be taken from us however, and we can even squander it away. Those of us that realize the true value of freedom, use that freedom for growth/passion and relationships. Have we figured out what freedom is yet?? ………. it’s time.

Time is a far more valuable commodity than money. Let us not forget that happiness is the goal here. Studies have shown that the correlation between money and happiness is not direct; in fact it’s very limited. Some poll studies point out a clear cap off point on any direct relationship between money and happiness (and the cap is low). Other psychological studies show that it is more dependent on an individuals ability to be happy; based totally on their mental health. So as I see it, ones happiness is only really dependent on our health, and time. How we spend their life/time. Do we have time? Is our time our own, or is it obligated to, or stolen by someone or something else?

In this reality we live in, we have to trade time for money. That’s just the way it is. We work 40-60 hours a week at a job to get paid. If our job is our passion, our purpose, a career, then this is not really a trade is it? We are spending our time wisely, AND getting paid for it (that’s what we call a win-win situation). But if we work just to make a living, this is a trade (time for money). Being that we need money to survive, this is an even trade; a good use of our freedom/time.

What is an uneven trade, is the copious amounts of time some people give to build a lavish life around them for their loved ones, which they themselves can’t take part in because of all the time their putting in. These are the people that place money in higher value than time. As a result, these are the people that squander away their lives (their time), and end up regretting it. These are the people who grow old and say “I wish I had spent more time with my kids when they were young. I wish I had spent more time with my family.” Now, thanks to their worship of the almighty dollar, they and their family suffers from all the time lost, squandered, when good relationships could have been made/maintained.

Be careful with “quick pleasures”

liquorcandyI spend a great deal of time observing and thinking about people, and what makes them happy. One thing I can’t help but notice is that people that are generally unhappy with their lives find fleeting happiness in very frequently engaging in “quick pleasures.” These are the things that become habits, which provide temporary pleasure, but can be destructive in the longer run. Examples of things that fall in this category are:

 

  • Smoking
  • Drinking
  • Drugs
  • unhealthy and/or excessive eating
  • Sex
  • Empty calorie entertainment (TV, video games, etc)

Don’t get me wrong. Most of the things that are considered “quick pleasures” (QP) are fine in moderation. Sex for example, is not only one of the most natural, but it is one of our most necessary activities. I encourage it. But it is a QP nonetheless, and as a result can become very addicting and therefore destructive if done excessively and irresponsibly.

The problem comes in when the QP crosses the line from being a satisfying recreational activity, to becoming a replacement activity to compensate for an unsatisfying life.

Ah, but did the QP problem cause the unhappiness, or did the unhappiness cause the QP problem? Irrelevant! But what is relevant, and true, is that they feed each other. The miserable life forces the individual to find solace in their vices, and the vices allow the individual to not have to face the underlying problem of their life; so the problem gets worse. This is the best case scenario (if said QP happens to be one of the healthier ones). I don’t believe I have to mention the additional ways most of the QP’s  can hurt an already miserable life.

In the end the truth is this:

QP’s don’t cause long term sustained happiness. Living a good satisfying life does; a life of healthy uplifting relationships, a life of purpose, a life of contribution, a life of growth. QP’s if not carefully moderated, can in fact, drain the long term happiness.

So as minimalists, the one thing we should periodically circle back to, is analyzing our lives to determine if the quick pleasures in our lives are in any way draining our long term happiness. If they are, then we have more de-cluttering to do.