The Health Separation Excuse

I have noticed that over the course of time, as medical science has progressed, people have developed this habit of separating the concept of their health into separate areas. This all started with separating mental, physical, and spiritual health (but it sure didn’t stop there).  As if all three of these types are somehow completely separated. Doing this has allowed people to compartmentalize their ailments, and in doing so divert their self diagnosed cause for such ailments into something they themselves cannot be blamed for, or control. This is a source of comfort for many people, as the only thing harder than learning that they have disease, is having to admit to themselves that they may have caused it.

The medical community for the most part caters to this mentality (even though they know it is totally false), because as long as people are not accepting responsibility and living a healthier life, they stand to turn a higher profit by pumping people full of drugs and having them invest in future invasive (and expensive) surgeries. Lets face it, how many physicians say “You need to lose 30 lbs and exercise 30min every day.” anymore? How many would rather just pump us full of cholesterol medication instead. The main focus of the medical business is the same as the main focus of any other business ……. to make money.

 

The truth is:

Unless we have a PHD to practice medicine, we are not qualified to even separate our mental, physical, and spiritual health into those three categories. Even those that do practice medicine professionally don’t know everything. The medical community (the honest medical community) itself, will be the first to admit that there is still more about the human body (and especially the mind) that they don’t know, than they do know.

 

Here is a short list of some of the excuses I have heard before that reflect this separation people make:

  • “My cancer has nothing to do with my diet.”
  • “I have diabetes, there is nothing I can do, or could have done about it.”
  • “Exercise will do nothing for me, its genetic.”

 

The answer of “genetics” is my favorite. It’s the biggest cop out of all of them. While some people are genetically more prone to some ailments than others, this does not alleviate them from their responsibility to themselves to do what they can to prevent/fight it. Because believe it or not, there have been many times when people have fought through and defeated diseases naturally, that were previously believed to be genetic. But somehow so many people seem far more comfortable with accepting sickness and death, than accepting responsibility.

In the end, the only thing we really know for sure regarding health is this: To be healthy in every way, one must lead a mentally and physically active lifestyle with a natural and proper diet. Eat healthy food, exercise, engage in cooperative problem solving projects, and drink lots and lots of water. That’s it. That’s the way it’s always been. That’s the way it will always be. The best cure, remedy, and preventative we have for every ailment in existence is just to follow this simple set of rules. We have no reason to believe otherwise. All we have is theories and excuses.

We, as a society, have to see our health as one idea. There is no separation of heart, liver, lungs, pancreas, brain, nervous system, circulatory system, respiratory system, and digestive system. These are all part of the same system. If anything happens to one of them (good or bad), it effects ALL OF THEM. The same goes for mental, physical, and spiritual health. These are all one in the same. A separation only needs to be made in the practice of medicine.

If we change our mentality to think of health as one all encompassing concept (like we once did), then we are forced to realize that we have to live a healthy all around lifestyle to prevent/fight any potential ailment. I.E. we must narrow (or minimize) our views of our health, because every part of our health is too closely linked to warrant separation for the purposes of best lifestyle practices.

The more we focus on our health as a whole, the less likely we will be in a circumstance where our doctors have to focus on any specific area of our health for a cure/remedy when we are the 11th hour of a disease.

Minimize anxiety, let the small things slide.

Too often do I see people complaining, whining over small inconveniences. They get so angry over things which are not even worthy of so much mental energy. A friend of mine once spoke a term that so wonderfully applies to how one should conduct themselves in these situations. It goes like this: People who overreact to inconveniences are not applying the “appropriate level of concern.” Admittedly, I myself find myself in situations where I feel a bit of anxiety, even rage sometimes when encountering an unexpected obstacle in the flow of my day; more specifically when there is something slowing me down (it’s the NY in me).

The problem with this anxiety, this rage, is that it does more harm than good. For starters, the feeling is not going to improve the situation …….. at all. It’s counterproductive toward getting through whatever obstacle we have encountered. In fact, the very emotion itself clouds our mind from finding any potential realistic solutions. Second, that negative energy can make the obstacle worse. That’s right. All that negative energy spills over onto the people closest to us. Even if we are not outwardly expressing our feelings. It’s written all over our faces and body language, and everyone is picking up on it; even if they don’t realize they are. This in turn, effects their attitude toward us. Third (and most important), most of the time, the anger or anxiety we feel is more of a drain on our day/life than the obstacle itself. Here are some examples of times when many of us get our anxiety levels up over small inconveniences:

  1. Traffic jam on the highway.
  2. In a long checkout line at the grocery store (traffic of a different variety).
  3. Jerks on the road.
  4. Just missed the deadline for something and they didn’t give it to you anyway.
  5. Just MADE the deadline for something and they didn’t give it to you (they are on a different clock).
  6. Car gets a flat.
  7. Check engine light comes on.
  8. Accidental spills.
  9. Any alteration in plans we did not account for.

Unless these time stalling inconveniences (traffic jam, grocery store) are keeping us from real time sensitive events (like open heart surgery), there is no rush.

Most of the situations mentioned above are situations we can’t control. So right off the bat, there really is no logical reason to get overly angry. Anger can only be useful when it motivates us to take action toward overcoming an obstacle; but there is nothing we can do in a traffic jam.

So lets do what we gotta do to calm ourselves, and not go crazy (internally or externally) over minor inconveniences, minor distractions. Count to ten, meditate, breathing exercises, soothing music, Yoga, or whatever. Don’t make a mountain out of a mole hill situation, accept the obstacle for what it is, and proceed calmly. We will get through this feeling much better.